How to Be the Friend Everyone Wants on a Trip (Without Being the Mom Friend)

MTL Break is officially happening, and you’re about to have the best week of your life with your favorite people. Between the parties, sightseeing, and late-night food runs, it’s easy to get caught up in the chaos. But let’s be real, every group needs that one friend who somehow keeps it together.

If you want to be the reliable one without killing the vibe, here’s how to do it like a pro:

1. Remember the essentials (and a few extras).

Pack smart. Think: phone charger, ID, cash, and whatever else you’d hate to lose at 2 a.m. Having a few extras like band-aids, gum, or Advil will make you the hero of your group in no time.

2. Keep an eye out for your crew.

It’s not about being the parent, it’s about having your friends’ backs. Make sure everyone gets home safely, stays hydrated, and doesn’t wander off solo. You can still be the life of the party and the one who remembers how everyone got back.

3. Know your limits (and stick to them).

There’s nothing cool about overdoing it. The real move? Pacing yourself and knowing your limits so you actually remember the night and can go just as hard the next one.

4. Be the positive energy.

Trips can get hectic. Plans change, people get tired, and someone’s always bound to lose something. Keep the good vibes going! Be the one who laughs it off, rallies the group, and turns every moment into a memory.

5. Have fun — seriously.

Being responsible doesn’t mean being boring. It means making sure nothing ruins your good time. When you’ve got your stuff together, you get to enjoy everything stress-free, and that’s what MTL Break is all about.